Parents： No matter how successful school education is, it is just an important supplement to family education!

“Looking at the dragon, look at the daughter into a phoenix.”

This is the wish of every parent’s heart, and I hope that their children can have a bright future.

For the so -called children to win on the starting line, how many parents want to do everything to send their children into a prestigious school. I hope that the famous school teachers and names will be in fact. I hope the teacher can educate the child.

But in fact, parents forget the most important point: parents are the best teachers of their children.

President Li Zhenxi said:“No matter how successful school education is, it is just an important supplement to family education.”

No matter how good a prestigious school is, it is not as good as family education.

No matter how good a teacher, he can’t replace his parents.

If you only rely on the teacher

Every time I talk about the problem of children’s education, parents will always push off:

“I want to make money to support my family, how can I have so much time to control my children.”

Whenever the child has a problem, the teacher contacts the parents, but the answer to the answer is:

“The teacher is sorry, I want to work, you will help me teach him.”

From the moment they sent their children to school, how many parents simply thought that their tasks were completed.

I feel that the child’s education is good or bad, relying on the teacher.

Because the teacher’s responsibility is to teach and educate people.

It is undeniable that the teacher is an engineer of the child’s growth on the education road.

As long as the child has the opportunity to become better, the teacher will definitely do everything to keep pushing the child away.

But in the final analysis, the teacher is just a preaching to solve the confusion.

It can only be a parent who can really affect children’s words and deeds, shape children’s personality, and cultivate children’s habits.

Former Minister of Education Chen Baosheng once said:“Family education is not in place, which will not only offset the effect of school education, but also cause a certain negative impact on children’s development.”

There is a famous formula in the education industry called “5+2 = 0”, which is verified.

The 5 -day school education is very effective, but as long as the 2 -day family education does not keep up, the child’s education will remain in place or even go backwards.

The famous actor Jackie Chan has a successful career, and the fame and fortune are doubled.

But his education for children was a mess.

It was precisely because of his irresponsibility that his son was arrested for drug use, and his daughter was on the streets to relieve food.

Educator Taman Johnson said:“Successful children who have successfully created successful children, failed children’s failed children.”

Educating children, family influence is far greater than schools.

Only parents are the head teachers of children who will never retire.

Educate your children

How many parents always think about, wait for themselves to be free before discipline their children.

So that when the child enters adolescence, various problems come out frequently, and the parents start to doubt:

“My child, why don’t you listen to me?”

A writer said:“Parents have a shelf life for their children’s education. The most critical decade is missing. No matter how to make up for it, it is not available.”

Professor Li Meijin also made a break, and the essence of education: “Before the age of 6, the parents ‘nagging and discourse were gold. After the age of 12, the parents’ words were garbage.”

Parents’ education for children is valid.

When children need educational most, parents are negligible to accompany and discipline. After that, they will only cause their children to rebellion and disobedience, and they may also make their children go on a crooked road.

The People’s Daily Online released a news that the title was: 2 years of studying for 2 years.

The protagonist is Chen Yu, a 22 -year -old boy.

His mother is a successful woman who has been busy with work, neglecting and educating children.

Chen Yu lived with grandma since he was a child, and his grandmother has been drowning him.

When he grew up, he was lonely and domineering and was unwilling to communicate with others.

He lost 2 million in two years to study abroad, but he did not even graduate from the preparatory course. After returning to China, he had been with the game. If he did not go out to work, the communication with his family only had money.

The host Dong Qing once said such a sentence:“When you educate your children, you choose to make money and don’t care about the child. When the child grows up, you have worked hard to make money for a lifetime, and you can’t reach his loser for a year.”

The success of any career cannot make up for the failure of educating children.

Don’t wait until the child’s education fails before it really realizes it.

On the road of education, parents should not be lazy.

Children’s education is the biggest career of parents’ life.

Behind each excellent child

Many parents often appear children’s children.

How good the children of other people’s homes are, the children of other people’s homes are more sensible …

So where does a good child come from?

It was taught by parents.

Remember the news of “twin blessings sent to Peking University and the Chinese Academy of Sciences, relaying to help my mother work at the construction site”?

The brothers are from the cold gate and are also sent to a doctorate in a prestigious school.

Behind their academic achievements is the full support of their parents.

For the sake of better education, parents’ hard work is almost surrounded by them for more than 20 years.

While they were studying, their father drove about 10 hours a day, and the mother was responsible for taking care of the two brothers to live.

When they were very young, they accompanied the left and right.

When studying at home, the mother went to sleep with them before starting to be busy with housework.

The reason why the brothers can achieve such achievements are indeed inseparable from their own efforts.

But we have to admit that there are countless hardships and all love behind our parents.

How can there be no “cold door”, but the parents are not working hard.

To cultivate an excellent child, the parents need to be carefully poured.

As Mo Yan said: “The child’s excellence is soaked with the sweat of his parents.”

People’s Daily also pointed out:Excellent children are “accompanied” by their parents.

The real education is to fight for my parents.

Every golden child is behind his parents’ struggle.

What kind of parents are you

We often think: How is the best education for children?

There is a saying that said this:Educate people first to educate morality, childcare first.

Parents’ words and deeds, every move, children see them in their eyes, remember in their hearts.

The best education is the preaching of parents.

The father of Chinese missiles, Qian Xuesen, is an example when educating children.

Every time he eats, he is neatly dressed, and he never places a shelf when he goes out.

The grades of children are never demanded, but instead affect them with their own actions.

At 7 pm, Qian Xuesen’s reading time.

This time can’t move, so every day.

Under his behavior, his children also developed a good habit of reading.

His son Qian Yonggang has been reading a series of “100,000 Bras” series every day since the second grade of elementary school.

Read the 70 -page content every day, and you will ask Qian Xuesen when you encounter a place where you don’t understand.

After growing up, Qian Yonggang studied at the Department of Computer Science at the California Institute of Technology and obtained a master’s degree. After graduation, he worked in computer software system development for a long time.

This is the result of Qian Xuesen’s education, all of which are inseparable from Qian Xuesen’s example.

German educator Fu Lu Bell once said:“There is no way to educate him, only love and example.”

Parents do themselves well, which is the essence of education.

Words to teach, one example, is better than a thousand words.

Writer Lev Tolstoy also said:“All education, or 999 thousands of education is attributed to the role model, and it is attributed to the correctness and improvement of the parents’ own life.”

The children grow up all the way, and the leadership of the teacher’s knowledge is indispensable.

Not to mention the example of the parents, and use action to do a good job.

Parents want their children to be a person, and they must work hard to be such a person.

Written at the end:

There is such a saying in the education industry:

“The greatest luck of a child is that there are teachers who have both abide by their duties and light in their eyes, but also their parents who are examples and never lack. Parents and teachers should shoulders side by side in the process of education to escort their children before the child will leave.Life on Life “.

Nourish or not, the father’s life;

Children’s education is inseparable from teachers, let alone parents.

Parents and teachers are the best collaborators, and it is difficult for children to lack any party.

Only parents and teachers have their own duties, and both parties jointly work, and children are the real future.